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Showing posts with label death. Show all posts
Showing posts with label death. Show all posts

Monday, 17 December 2018

2min 17sec @NASA clip - The Life and Death of a Planetary System



Text from youtube "How are stars and planets born? What happens to its planets when a star dies? At our Exoplanets website, come along on an epic interstellar journey, billions of years long, through the life and death of a planetary system:

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Monday, 21 April 2014

#socialmedia & #death - 10 things you may not have thought about #DORS (ht @drbexl )


a summary of some thoughts from #DORS - a Death Online Research Symposium by Durham University held on 9-10 April 2014.  (and ht to @drbexl and her post at digitalfingerprint for the source info from which I made this summary)




In pre-industrial society, the most common death would be a child, mourned by their household and a community that knew them. Walter
In the 20th century, this changes: typical death is an old person, whose family have moved away & neighbours didn't know them. Walter
Tony Walter's keynote at - mourning on Facebook is similar to mourning in pre-industrial age: mourning in and with your networks
"There's a lot to be said for private grief" - online, public mourning can lead to abuse, conflict and trolling. Walter at
@DamienMcC_dli at : "Facebook user profiles after death: digital inheritance or property of the network?"

0 Apr 2014



5) Visibility of a deceased person’s content remains as it was set by the account holder while alive

: links supporting my presentation: paper > http://ijlit.oxfordjournals.org/content/early/2013/09/25/ijlit.eat012.full.pdf+html  blog on recent changes >http://damienmccdli.wordpress.com/2014/03/27/a-look-back-at-facebooks-evolving-deceased-user-policy/ 
At a young man's funeral, no friends attended - because the family didn't have his passwords and couldn't contact anyone. Simon Allen
- Facebook provides memorial pages http://www.telegraph.co.uk/technology/facebook/6445152/Facebook-introduces-memorial-pages-to-prevent-alerts-about-dead-members.html  .. Some feel is another reminder that actually dead & page not 'lifelike'




8) How will others receive your digital estate inheritance? 


RT @drbexl: up til 5-10 years ago memories were physical and easy to access ... Now many memories hidden behind passwords..

physical stuff can only get inherited by one person, but much digital = endlessly replicable... [no legal restraints?]
Game for teens to explore the metaphysics of death http://playtheend.com 

11:54 AM - 10 Apr 2014

Monday, 9 April 2012

facing death


facing death, a top pastor rethinks what it means to be christian


he looked at himself as a man filled with lessons, proverbs and, most of all, answers.

and felt needed

the truth is, the more I live, the fewer answers I have

yet now he has the time to follow jesus to an extent he didn't have time for before

as you get nearer to the end - you realise how fragile life is and only do he things that are important

eventually he regained perspective. 

he now meets with congregants one-on-one and feels that is way more important than the 000's he used top preach to

it took me quite a while to find an alternative purpose - but the good news is out there – there is a purpose for everyone.”

Friday, 9 March 2012

grieving

this article from chaplain mike via the internet monk looks at what his approach is to the grief of those surviving the loss of a loved one. 


the article answers this and other questions more fully but some headlines from it are:


- our death distancing/denying culture means we are not realistic about the aftermath from losing a loved one


 - the initial bereavement period is about thirteen months long as we go through all the annual annual occasions once celebrated together with the person


- the journey of grief is taken best within the context of a caring community: family, friends and neighbours, faith group. 


- grief is not about the one who died, but about the pain I feel because he/she is gone and my life is changed forever.

Sunday, 4 March 2012

what do people who are sick and dying talk about with the chaplain?

this post by kerry egan tells the whole story rather wonderfully, but in summary 






- mostly about their families
the love they felt and gave or didn't receive or didn't know how to offer or withheld or never felt
how they learned what love is, and what it is not
- when actively dying they often reach their hands out to things I cannot see
and concludes that people talk to the chaplain about their families because that is where we create our lives, where we find meaning, where our purpose becomes clear.